Imperfect but Beautiful Imperfect but Beautiful

Rather than denying our fragility, wholeness is
found when blemishes are embraced.

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Inspired by the Japanese art of Kintsukuroi,
Living Wholeness Singapore sees beauty in the broken.

Like craftsmen who find value of their vessels within the cracks that mar the surfaces, we seek to
restore broken lives and help our clients discover worth within and beyond their wounds,
fulfilling their potential and celebrating the surpassing value of life renewed.

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Services
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Counselling

Counselling

individual assessment

Individual and Couple Assessment

Marriage Enrichment

Marriage Enrichment

Consultation & Supervision

Consultation and Supervision

People Care Training

People Care Training

Designed Workshops

Designed Workshops, Training and Curriculum Development

Clients

We have served churches, organisations and seminaries, as well as clients from other faiths and nationalities, missionaries, pastors, expatriates and Christians.

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    Ms Kog Kng (KK) Tan-Lee is a seasoned Christian counsellor, social work consultant, mental health and relationship coach, curriculum developer, and training specialist with close to 30 years of professional experience across Singapore, China, and the wider Asia region. She holds a Master of Social Work (University of Queensland) and a Post-Graduate Diploma in Counseling (Singapore Bible College).

    KK is a recipient of national-level awards, including the President’s Commendation Award for SARS, presented in recognition of her dedicated care for patients and their families, and Singapore’s highest national skills accolade, The SkillsFuture Fellowship (2017).

    She is extensively trained in a range of evidence-based modalities, including EMDR Trauma-Informed Therapy (Level 2), Choice Theory/Reality Therapy, Satir Counseling, Sandplay and Clay Therapy, and the Gottman Method Couples Therapy. She is also a certified Gottman Seven Principles Educator, Prepare/Enrich and SYMBIS facilitator, DISC Accredited Behavioral Analyst, ACTA-certified trainer, and Certified Performance Leadership Coach. Drawing from these diverse modalities, and her grounding in the Christian Wholeness Framework (CWF), KK integrates professional expertise with a Spirit-led approach to provide holistic care.

    Her cross-cultural experience includes six years in East Asia, where she managed community programmes in HIV/AIDS work and provided counselling and social work consultancy to both local and expatriate communities, including Christians, pastors, and missionaries. Partnering with the Holy Spirit, KK has journeyed with individuals and couples through personal, marital, spiritual, mental health, and workplace challenges—witnessing profound healing and transformation.

    KK’s clinical and coaching practice spans a wide spectrum of mental health, relational, and workplace well-being issues. She has worked extensively with leaders, helping professionals, frontline staff, and individuals from diverse cultural and professional backgrounds to build resilience, address trauma, and strengthen personal and interpersonal functioning.

    As a seasoned trainer, KK has designed and delivered more than 23,000 hours of training for volunteers, social service practitioners, healthcare and education professionals, and church communities across Singapore and the region. Her workshops—ranging from small group settings to large audiences of up to 600 participants—are consistently recognised for their relevance, depth, clarity, and engaging facilitation.

    Fluent in English and Chinese, with conversational Cantonese and Hokkien, KK conducts counselling, coaching, training, and writing effectively in both languages. She is especially passionate about nurturing personal growth in Christians and caring for God’s servants and the broken-hearted.

    WWarm, grounded, and deeply committed, KK brings together professional excellence and faith-centered compassion, creating a safe and hope-filled space for healing, growth, and transformation.

Our Approach

    In our counselling and training, we use a wholistic, effective and God-centred framework called the Christian Wholeness Framework (CWF). This framework was developed by Dr John Warlow, an Australian Christian psychiatrist who was born in India into a missionary family, and it has been tested in the fires of many clients over many years, across diverse cultures, settings and counselling issues.

    Being invitational in nature, CWF emphasizes respect for clients, giving them space and choices, and to journey with them in an empathic, non-judgemental and culturally-sensitive manner. In this respect, we have had the privilege of counselling clients from other faiths and nationalities, missionaries, pastors, expatriates and Christians.

    One of the main strengths of CWF is its wholistic and unique approach to case conceptualisation which allows effective integration of different therapies so that the best intervention can be used to meet the unique needs of each individual, couple and family. CWF is also transferrable and has been used to train pastors, member-care providers, social workers and churches to do good care and discipleship.

    As practitioners who have experienced God's healing and transformation in our lives through experiencing CWF, we continue to apply it in our daily lives - with our family, friends and others. We are privileged to have witness many of God's healing and transformation of people across all walks of life with different faith, culture, ethnicity, status and vocation.

Living Wholeness Singapore was birthed from a vision from God to serve the servants of God and to bring wholeness to individuals, families and communities.

  • We desire to see the broken-hearted healed, transformed and grow into healthy individuals, families and communities.

  • We believe that healthy individuals will lead to healthy families, and healthy families will lead to healthy communities that will bring love, healing and transformation to the nations.

  • We avail our services to all peoples; regardless of their faith, ethnicity and status, and we respect our client's preference for a faith-based or non-faith-based approach in our services.

  • We are both a company and a ministry: we strive to provide professional and excellent services at a reasonable fee, and at the same time, we seek to avail our services to God's servants and others who need it but are unable to afford it.

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Counselling

We believe it is important for our clients to have choices so that they can choose what best suit their needs.

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Individual and Couple Assessment

Clients have found the following assessments to be very helpful in personal growth, improving their interpersonal relationships and effectiveness at work.

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DISC®
Personality assessment tool for individuals and couples.

By doing a DISC profiling, you will discover how God has created you and others uniquely, recognize your own behavioural patterns, and learn why you feel, think and act the way you do.

This insight will help you to improve your relationship with yourself, enhance your strengths and potential, and regulate your weaknesses. It will also help you appreciate the uniqueness of others and improve your interpersonal relationships with your family members, friends, colleagues and ministry co-workers. All of these will help you to grow in loving God and loving your neighbour as yourself.

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SYMBIS
Christian pre-marriage and newly-weds couple assessment tool.

Research conclusively shows that couples who succeed, gain the knowledge they need before they settle into destructive patterns that often lead to divorce. In fact, couples are 31% less likely to get divorced if they get some sort of pre-marriage training before they marry. Not only that, couples who participate in pre-marriage programs experience a 30% increase in marital success and fulfillment over those who do not participate. (source: SYMBIS)

So if you’re planning to get married and intend to thrive in your marriage for life, why not start it well and consider taking the SYMBIS assessment?

The SYMBIS Assessment is a practical, relevant and robust pre-marriage tool developed by marriage gurus in the Christian circle, Dr Les and Leslie Parrot. The 15-page report it generates is packed with practical and personalized insights, and helps you to explore a full range of issues and get straight to what matters most.

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To Love and be Loved

This is a unique marriage enrichment workshop that is specially designed to nourish and enrich your marriage. In this course you will:

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Consulation & Supervision

Consultation and Supervision

The processes of social work and counseling clinical supervision and consultation are essential for professional development.

Through an interactive, respectful and hands-on process,you will learn case conceptualization, assessment, new knowledge and therapeutic skills pertaining to the case presented.

You will also receive feedback about your strengths and suggestions on how to further strengthen your skills. Although you will not be counseled about your personal issues, you will be assisted in becoming more aware of how your personal issues may interfere with your interaction and intervention of your clients.

Our services cover:

  1. Consultation for Personal, Ministry and Work related areas
  2. Consultation for churches and Christian organisations
  3. Social Work casework consultation and supervision
  4. Counselling consultation and supervision
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People Care Training

People Care Training

This course is based on the Christian Wholeness Framework (CWF) and aims to equip you with a biblical, wholistic and practical approach to caring and counselling individuals. It will greatly enhance your effectiveness in ministering to individuals who are hurting and in need of help.

There are 3 levels of People Care Training. Each training requires 3 full days of theory and skills practice, and comes with a full set of course manual and certificate.

  1. Level 1 People Care Training : Foundations and basic skills of People Care Download brochure
  2. Level 2 People Care Training : Serving those with complex emotions and mental health issues
  3. Level 3 People Care Training : Journeying with couples and caring for families
  4. Intensive skills based training: Supervised skills practice through case study and role plays

Participants in the following fields have benefited from this training:

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Designed Workshops,
Training and Curriculum
Development

We work closely with different organisations, churches and groups to tailor-make workshops and trainings to suit their unique needs.

Some designed workshops we have conducted are:

Topics of workshops include:

  1. People care skills for people helpers and pastoral/member care staff
  2. Social work and counselling related topics
  3. Life skills, self growth, marriage and family life topics
  4. DISC® personality testing for groups / organizations and vocational / ministry selection
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Social Care Services

Social Care Services Singapore

Addiction
Resources in Singapore for those who need help in all kinds of addiction

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Organisation Desc.
NAMS The National Addictions Management Service (NAMS). Provides treatment for people with addictions. Hotline: 6-7326837
WE CARE Community Services Addiction treatment centre for all forms of addictions. Provides support groups for all kinds of addictions.
Alcoholics Anonymous A support group for alcoholics
Al-Anon Family Groups A support group for friends and family of alcoholics
Co-Dependent Anonymous A support group for those who are co-dependent
Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous A support group for sex & love addicts

Crisis & Mental Health
Resources in Singapore for those who need help in crisis or mental health conditions

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Organisation Desc.
SOS (suicide & crisis hotline) Samaritans of Singapore provides 24-hour confidential emotional support to people who have difficulty coping during a crisis, who are thinking of suicide or affected by suicide. Hotline: 1800-221 4444
Tinkle Friend National helpline / chatline which provides support, advice, and information to lonely and distressed children of all primary-school-age. Hotline: 1800-2744-788
Trauma Recovery & Corporate Solutions Helpful resources for Critical Incident
Institute of Mental Health Mental health hospital which provides treatment for various kinds of mental health conditions. E.g. Depression, Dementia, ADHD, OCD, Anxiety Disorder
Singapore Association for Mental Health Community mental health agency that provides quality step-down care and rehabilitative services to persons with mental health conditions. Hotline: 1800-2837019
Beyond Blue Create a personalized suicide safety plan which you can email to your GP/mental health professional or trusted supporters.

Member Care
Resources for cross-cultural workers care (esp. in Asia)

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Organisation Desc.
Living Wholeness Singapore Serves cross-cultural workers through counselling, debriefing, pastoral care & trainings. Based in Singapore.
Life Journey Centre Serves cross-cultural workers through counselling & coaching. Based in Penang, Malaysia
The Well International Serves cross-cultural workers through counselling, debriefing, pastoral care, trainings and related events. Based in Chiang Mai, Thailand.
Juniper Tree An evangelical and non-denominational retreat centre for Christian workers. Two locations in Thailand.
WITS International Provides free on-site counseling services to missionaries.
Global Member Care Network Provides resources to equip and connect internationally all Christian practitioners of member care at any level. See their links page for MC resources like Barnabas International, Headington Institute & Missionary Care
Rocky Re-Entry A resource and support for those who faces the challenge of re-entry

Elderly & Vulnerable
Resources in Singapore for the Elderly, vulnerable and needy

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Organisation Desc.
Singapore Silver Pages A one-stop portal that provides resources on integration of social care, healthcare, community mental health, and caregiving for seniors and caregivers.
PAVE Family violence specialist centre which provides help and services for victims and perpetrators of family violence
Star PALS Provides paediatric palliative care service to improve the quality of life for children with life-threatening or life-limiting conditions.
Singapore Hospice Council Information and resources on hospice and palliative care.
ComCare Provides social assistance for low-income individuals and families. Hotline: 1800-2220000

Ministry of Social and Family Development (MSF)
The Singapore government’s one-stop portal for all kinds of community and social welfare services in Singapore.

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Their services include:
  • Children & Youth
  • Elderly & Active ageing
  • Financial Assistance
  • Dating Services
  • Disabilities & Special Needs
  • Helping the Needy and Vulnerable
  • Marriages
  • Parenting

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